这一期《读者文摘〉上有两块豆腐干，读后有点感慨。现译转如下并附原文，以便请高手指正。 新泽西的 John Talerico 说：争吵，不是个输赢的问题。即使赢了，却损失了爱和尊重，不是好的结果。宽容，才是正确的途径。 原文：Arguing is not a matter of winning or losing. Winning at the expense of love and respect is not the solution.The solution is forgiveness. 感慨：红楼梦里的凤姐认为，夫妻间“不是东风压倒西风，就是西风压倒东风。“ 美国独立宣言说：“人人生而平等“；而提倡斗争哲学的毛太祖，却很欣赏凤姐的这句话。看来，东西方文化确有不同。统治，还是平等？做胜利者，还是做合作者？ 密西根的 Augic Gessert Jr. 说：为神马每一桩婚姻里都会有争吵呢？我结婚 60 年了，并且我知道一些该如何做，才能跟太太有良好的关系。当我们有分歧的时候，我就停下来，想一想：这事儿重要吗？如果不，我就算了；如果重要，讲一点自己的理由，然后，到此为止，不去吵架。结果就是：我们在爱和亲吻中，始终和睦相处。 原文：Why should there be fights in every marriage? I've been married 60 years, and I know something about having a good relationship with a wife. When we have a disagreement, I stop and thinking, is this something that is important?If it's not,I let it pass.If it is, a little reasoning, and the matter is done -- without a fight. The result: We get along just fine with love and kisses. 感慨：夫妻吵架的起因，大多是为了鸡毛蒜皮的琐事。为争一口气，逐步升温，干戈大动。如果两人对家里小问题很计较，而当外来大麻烦来临时，却能高度一致，齐心应对；那就证明夫妻间确有真情实爱，吵得岂不冤枉？经营婚姻如同开汽车，刹车千万不能坏，更别错踩了油门！ 共勉！
The war time, soldiers show their power for the great country. Though Budde's dead words may imply something anti-war, most of the movie showed the ordinary explain for war, no matter which war it is. As a soldier, a idiot soldier, Gump even did not know why he was there in Vietnam. But his friendship with Budde and his great respect for Luteniet Dan, a man whose families died for every War of independence for American, told us such thing actually happening. And his returning America as a hero who help to inspire more and more people to fight, fight for independence, for freedom, for everything. America is a great country where you have many opportunities to hold on your dreams and make them come true. In fact, the love between soldier-like brothers couldn't be ignored. i have no experience in any army, but i know it was one of the greatest and strongest relationships in the world. And i hope there is someday i have an chance to fight for my country too, with great honor.
At the beginning of the story, Forrest was trying his new help on his foot, and his mother showed pleasure on it. In spite of his low IQ, mother thought he should not be different. She believed Gump could make it, which portrayed a night of hope for Gump. The love of mother was more powerful than everything. Yes, i could feel it. For every time i go back home from GZ, my mother would buy much and make delicious food for me, no matter how much they are. The fishes i like, the vegetable i taste, and the congee i cherish.
The line of love passed through the whole movie. Certainly, we couldn't pass the passion for Jenny, a lovely girl provided the first place for Gump and then in the next whole life Gump put back every piece of his love for her. How beautiful and eternal love it is! i show my respect and admiration for all of them, for Gump's true and never fade away loving, as well as the brave sprite for free and dreams of Jenny. If i were one of them, i should be more powerful with my heart now. there is no need to mention about the miseries on the way to the end of their struggle. Anyway the solution told us the best reply. As a man, an ordinary man, you deserved it, Forrest Gump!
Forrest Gump, a tale told by an idiot, actually not but a ordinary person, is a movie masterpiece that won't be forgotten and will continue to inspire. As a great movie in the history, i did not get much point in the first seeing. All things presented like a story about an idiot passing his life thought he did not realize it. But for the audiences, it may be a great and powerful story of a hero. After reading much comments and reviews of the movie, i thought there is something that knocking me deeply, which recalled me much about an American dream.